I think there may be misconceptions about accommodations for people with special needs. We all know that some people really need them, but there are just so many people who want them, without necessarily having just cause.
Just think about those blue parking spots out there. Of course everyone would love to have prime parking, but that does not mean that we need it!
There is quite a difference between needs and wants. This is something that tends to get lost in a world where it is every man for himself.
Instead of recognizing, and appreciating that we need to level up the playing field for some people, we get resentment, and a feeling that some people get everything.
Perhaps you have come to believe that your child does not get the special treatment they deserve because they do not have a disability.
If you are in a position in your life where you cannot understand the need for allowances being made, I envy you.
Accommodations do not give one an advantage over another, they generally just give a person who is already disadvantaged an opportunity to participate, or engage. Without accommodations being made, this might not be possible, or perhaps just an awful lot more difficult.
Do not begrudge people the assistance they need. Do not take for yourself, a service that rightfully belongs to another. Instead, remember to feel gratitude. Be grateful that your body allows you the ability to park far from the door, and still get into a building. Appreciate that you and yours are able to wait patiently in a line-up without dire consequences.
When you are upset that there are services you do not feel that you can avail of, change those thoughts into thankfulness that there are services that you and your family do not need.